Why You’re A Poor Parent When Your Inner Child Is Angry

The reason why you're a poor parent when your inner child is angry is because of how you will react.  You will end up react toward your kids from the child version of you. Your

How I Became A Pre Adoption Coach For Adoptive Parents

Do you believe everything happens for a reason? Have you ever reflected on your life to find you had one thing planned for yourself or your life and a strange turn of events made all

Why Boundaries Are Important When Raising An Adopted Child

I believe when someone adopts a child they are signing an oath do right by that child. That vulnerable child who by its very nature is wounded. This is why boundaries are so important when

What An Adoptee Wants You To Know BEFORE You Adopt

If you are a hopeful adoptive parent or already parenting an adopted child I can assume you are well versed in adoption trauma. I think it’s also safe to assume you have a great understanding

What I Want My Own Adoptive Parents To Know

From a very early age, I was told that I was adopted. And while a part of me understood the facts, they had no emotional meaning to me. My family was MY family. And I

Adopted And Abused – How I Learned Not To Trust

My brother was going snowmobiling. His friends were all sitting around the kitchen table carrying on while waiting for him.  Nana, my adoptive grandmother was also there. I was doing the dishes.   These friends